But real estate is local, as First American Financial Corporation’s Odeta Kushi puts it. Some markets haven’t even seen a decline in home prices at all, including Miami, Orlando, Tampa and Charlotte, according to the title insurance company’s Real Home Price Index and its analysis of “boom, no-bust” cities.

Surge in mortgage rates exacerbates housing shortage

Keeping prices high are ongoing inventory challenges, and higher rates have only exacerbated them. After the subprime mortgage meltdown of 2007-2009, new-home construction slowed rapidly and never fully recovered. By the time the coronavirus pandemic-induced recession hit in February 2020, housing starts were still down 31 percent from the 2007 peak, Census Bureau data shows. Starts for single-family units remained even more depressed.

Balanced housing markets tend to have at least six months’ worth of housing supply, but as of May, it would’ve taken just 3 months to sell all of the homes on the market, NAR data shows. Buyers are picking up the pace — that ratio is up from a low of 2.6 months in February  — but the process of constructing to selling a home takes time.

“You used to be able to find a home around $250,000, and there’s just limited inventory in that price point now,” says Erica Davis, a broker at Guild Mortgage, of her home base in Myrtle Beach, South Carolina. “You’ve got values going up; interest rates are going up. It’s a lot more on their monthly payment. I have a lot of pre-approved clients, and there’s nothing that they can qualify for.”

Younger generations who don’t currently own a home reported in Bankrate’s poll that not having enough income is a major barrier to homeownership (45 percent for Gen Z and 44 percent for millennials), as well as home prices being too high (34 percent for Gen Z and 42 percent for millennials) and being unable to afford a down payment and closing costs (30 percent for Gen Z and 43 percent for millennials).

Structural changes are keeping sellers on the sidelines, too. Homeowners who locked in sub-3 percent mortgage rates during the lows of 2021 are in no rush to sell their homes if it means committing to a near-7 percent mortgage for a new home. Older Americans are also living longer, and technological and health advancements are allowing them to stay put in their homes.

“New supply — that’s the best way to solve the housing affordability issue over the long run,” Kushi says. “That lack of inventory puts a floor on how low prices can go.”

A millennial herself, Kushi knows these stats are more than just numbers. Just last year, she was a first-time homebuyer. She recalls being in a bidding war with one home that had 19 offers. She almost didn’t even end up closing on the home she bought.

She’d paid a visit to the potential property 10 hours after it was first posted and scheduled an inspection for the following day. Two hours after her showing, however, the home had already received an above-market offer.

“They were kind enough to take a look at an offer from me,” she says. Kushi ended up winning by $1,000. “I always tell people, do not get caught up in the hysteria. Make a budget, and stick with it.”

Should younger Americans make a sacrifice to buy a home, or should they wait it out? Here’s 8 steps you can take in a tough housing market

The young Americans who want to own a home are facing a major — and expensive — dilemma. Should they keep renting, should they wait out the market or should they make a sacrifice just to buy? No choice is free or painless.

Delaying homeownership can come with major setbacks. Homeowners’ median net worth ($254,900) is more than 40 times the net worth of renters ($6,270), according to the Federal Reserve’s most recent Survey of Consumer Finances from 2019.

But so can buying a house that you’ll later regret. Younger Americans who own a home are also more likely to wind up facing a financial-related regret about their purchase, at 45 percent for Gen Zers and 36 percent for millennials, versus 26 percent of Gen X and 22 percent of baby boomers. Those include anything from locking in a too-high monthly mortgage payment or rate, as well as facing unexpectedly expensive maintenance fees or other hidden costs.

Other common non-financial-related regrets include buying too small of a house or not liking the location, Bankrate’s poll found.

The longer Americans wait to mull it over, the more it’s costing them, too. National rent prices are slowing down from the previous two years of gains, but many cities are still just stabilizing after pandemic-era price bursts, according to data from Zumper. Historically pricey cities like New York and Jersey City are still facing record highs, and no end is in sight, the housing listing site said.

The choice is always a challenge when buying a home is a commitment. For a year and a half, Matthew Hackett’s family had to make do in a smaller, older home as they searched for a bigger house in their price range. The New York-based operations manager at mortgage lender EquityNow said he slept in the living room with his wife while his two children each took their home’s only bedrooms until 2014, when they found their current home.

They didn’t want to move to New Jersey or Long Island, even if it meant finding more homes in their price range. Instead, they endured the trials and tribulations of the hunt to wait for a place in their target location and price range.

They ended up finding a place. It had four-inch carpets, four layers of curtains, pink and floral wallpaper and more signs of its age — but “those are the sacrifices you make,” Hackett says.

“There are always going to be sacrifices, unless you have some unlimited supply of wealth,” he adds. “You have to figure out what you’re willing to sacrifice.”

For the young Americans who want to buy a home but aren’t sure if they should make more sacrifices or stick it out, here’s 8 tips for you to decide what to do.

1. Think about what’s most important to you over the long haul

Don’t set unrealistic expectations for yourself: Buying a perfect home that checks all of your boxes is next-to-impossible, and having a too-narrow search could also cause you to pass up on perfectly suitable housing options. The ultimate goal, however, is making sure you’re not sacrificing the features that are most important to you.

You may be open to living anywhere, or perhaps you’d prefer to be close to family, friends or a city. To know what you have to work with, though, you have to first know what works for you.

And don’t just think about the now. Financial situations change, and families grow. With Americans staying put in their homes for longer, you’ll likely want to consider what will be important to you over a longer time horizon.

2. Know your budget and stick with it

You’ll never know what works for you if you don’t have an idea of how much house you can afford in the first place. Financial experts often recommend never spending more than 25-28 percent of your monthly take-home pay on housing as a typical rule of thumb.

Look at your household’s spending habits, savings, debts and income. Other costs to include are closing and moving costs, property taxes, insurance and utility costs, as well as maintenance fees and emergency repairs.

Beware, however, of constructing a budget that’s so strict you can’t take vacations, live comfortably, continue saving and treat yourself every now and then. Jake Northrup, CFP and founder of Experience Your Wealth, recommends looking at housing at the low, medium and high end of your budget, then figuring out what you may need to sacrifice to achieve any of those price points.

“You may decide that buying a home on the lower end of your budget and having the ability to travel twice per year instead of once per year is more important to you than having a home on the high end of your budget,” Northrup says. “Without understanding these tradeoffs, you are making one of the biggest financial decisions of your life in the dark.”

3. Consider why you want to become a homeowner

For most Americans, their home is the biggest purchase they’ll ever make. The bonus is that their valued asset will hopefully keep appreciating. But it’s important to be honest with yourself about the cyclical nature of housing.

“The decision to buy a home — if you’re not an investor — is a lifestyle decision,” Kushi says. “Housing is, first and foremost, shelter.”

Housing prices will rise and fall depending on the local and national economy. Cities may be more affordable in the Midwest, for example, but they might not appreciate as much as coastal cities or growing markets such as Austin and Phoenix.

Those gyrations don’t matter so much if you’re willing to wait out the bumps and stay put for longer. But if the main reason why you want to buy a home is so you’re banking the money rather than your landlord, the lifestyle isn’t as glamorous as it often sounds. Remember: Anytime a dishwasher breaks or the bathroom plumbing needs fixing, you’re on the hook to pay for it.

Northrup recommends asking yourself some main lifestyle questions, including:

“If you feel buying a home is still the right thing to do after answering these questions, then you are likely ready to consider buying a home,” he says. “However, if you feel that buying a home jeopardizes some of your other goals such as traveling, paying down student loans or investing in yourself, you may want to reconsider whether buying a home is the right thing for you.”

4. Factor in the costs and requirements of relocating for housing

If you’re moving far away, your home won’t be the only major purchase you have to make. Relocation fees can also be expensive, and it’s also important to research tax and insurance-related costs of your new area, too.

Above all, you want to be sure your new home is the right place for you. It might not be worth the money, time and energy to move all of your assets long-distance if you plan to go back to your original location in only a few years — especially if housing affordability challenges eventually subside.

“Just because it’s cheaper doesn’t mean that that’s the place where you ought to be,” says Kaysi Gordon, CFP and founder of New York-based Kaysi Gordon Financial Planning. “If the only thing you’re looking at is, ‘The pricing of housing is cheaper there. I’m going to go there and be miserable,’ I’d say that’s a bad bet.”

5. Think twice about moving away for a job — or relocating because you can work remotely

Despite structural shifts in the way Americans view work, they’re still indicating a willingness to move to a new area for a job. Even more surprising, young Americans are especially inclined.

More than 1 in 4 American workers (or 26 percent) said in a March Bankrate poll that they’re likely to relocate for a job at some point over the next 12 months. Those figures jumped for younger Americans, hitting 37 percent for Gen Z workers and 34 percent of millennial workers, compared with 17 and 8 percent of their Gen X and baby boomer counterparts, respectively.

Remote work, meanwhile, may inspire workers to move to any area that’s cheaper since they have the flexibility.

Workers, however, should carefully research the area where they’re considering moving. The job market is solid today, but it might not be forever. Unemployment is projected to hit 4.5 percent by July 2024, according to Bankrate’s second-quarter Economic Indicator survey. Know what opportunities your new location may give you if you were to lose your position — and have a game plan in mind.

Some industries could face worsening employment outlooks than others, but a slowdown in remote-work jobs has long been predicted. The share of positions advertising remote or hybrid work has fallen over the past year, from a peak of 10.3 percent in February 2022 to 8.4 percent in May 2023, Indeed data shows. Job postings have also fallen the most in the sectors that are considered remote-work friendly, including IT, software and other information technology services. At the same time, Indeed finds that job-seeker interest in remote work is still near an all-time high.

A softening labor market shifts the power away from employees and back to employers, giving companies the wherewithal to take away those benefits.

6. If you’re interested in moving to a lower-cost city, consider these Bankrate-backed metro areas

If your career is easily transferable and you’re flexible about where you live, Americans can utilize Bankrate’s rankings of the country’s cheapest cities, its best places for first-time homebuyers, hidden housing gems and best cities to launch a career for help in their housing research.

7. Get a handle on your finances while you wait

Americans shouldn’t attempt to time any market, let alone housing or real estate. The best time to buy a house doesn’t come down to mortgage rates or home prices — but rather, your individual financial situation.

Your credit score, a strong history of on-time payments and low debt-to-income ratios can help keep you first in line for lenders’ most competitive offers. If you’re caught in housing limbo, consider using the time to your advantage, padding up all of the components of your future mortgage application.

You can also use the time to prioritize saving up for a down payment, as well as closing, maintenance and emergency costs. If you’re successful, you may even be able to increase your housing budget.

And remember: A minimum 20 percent down payment is a widespread misconception. You might still have to pay for private mortgage insurance (PMI) if you put down less, but it also might make more sense for your individual financial picture.

Most conventional mortgages allow you to put down at least 3 percent. Some lenders may even have special deals for first-time homebuyers, such as down-payment match programs, lower rates and more.

“Good savings habits, an aversion to overspending and debt and investing in your earning power are the building blocks of successful homeownership,” says Greg McBride, CFA, Bankrate chief financial analyst. “A few years of modest, even tepid, home price appreciation will allow the incomes of young, upwardly mobile aspiring homeowners to catch up to home prices.”

8. Know you don’t have to buy a home to grow your wealth

Above all, it’s important to remember that you don’t have to wait to become a homeowner to grow your wealth. The strong financial habits of saving for the unexpected and investing for longer-term goals often are what pay off the most.

If you already have an emergency fund and are contributing to your retirement accounts, Americans can also invest for their future outside of an employer-sponsored plan by opening their own brokerage accounts. You could even pay for a downpayment with some of the money from your investments, depending on your time horizon.

If you were to start investing just $200 a month starting at 22, you could have $1.2 million by the time you reach 70, assuming an 8 percent annual return, calculations from Bankrate show.

“It’s not a bad thing to not want to be a homeowner,” Gordon says. “It just might not be your value system. It’s more important to live in your value system than to say, ‘This is the American Dream.”